The Toleration Audit

21 statements that reveal what you've been carrying - and how close you are to burnout.

Instructions:

Read each statement below. If it describes your reality more often than not, put a "1" on your paper.
No overthinking or justfiying.

Just gut-level honesty.

When you finish, total your checkmarks and use the scoring guide at the bottom.

Part 1: The statements

Write a "1" on your sheet for each that apply.

TOLERATION #1: Responsibility That Isn’t Yours Anymore

*I stay in roles that no longer challenge me

*I say yes too fast, then regret it

*I perform well but feel invisible

*I let work bleed into nights and weekends

*I wait for recognition instead of claiming it

*I’m the dependable one — while my own growth stalls

*I haven’t had a real win in years, just survival

TOLERATION #2: An Identity I’ve Outgrown

*I overthink decisions I used to make easily

*I’d feel less self-worth without my job title and accomplishments

*I need certainty before I move

*I’m afraid of risking what I’ve built

*I compare myself to younger peers

*I feel behind — even with a strong track record

*I fear becoming irrelevant

TOLERATION #3: Quiet Erosion

*I feel emotionally flat but can’t explain why

*I’ve lost my edge, and I know it

*I show up for others but rarely for myself

*I’ve accepted that “this is just how life is now”

*I wonder, “Is this all there is?”

*I can’t remember the last time I felt lit up

MOMENT OF TRUTH: Tally up your score & write the total

WHAT YOUR SCORE MEANS:

0–4 CHECKS

You’re doing fine —or you’re good at compartmentalizing. Stay vigilant.

5–10 CHECKS

You’re carrying more than you realize. These low-level drains are compounding, and they’re not sustainable.

110–15 CHECKS

You’ve been tolerating too much, for too long. You’re high-functioning, but running on fumes. It’s only a matter of time before you crash and burn.

15-20+ CHECKS

You’re running on habit and obligation, not aligned leadership. This isn’t failure. It’s feedback. What got you here… won’t get you where you’re meant to go.

Now......

You’ve identified what you’ve been tolerating...

But, that alone doesn’t change anything.

Most men stop here and make excuses. The next step is to stop tolerating it.

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Day 1: Expose the outdated mindset keeping you stuck. Break one behavior that's been controlling you.

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What do you do next?

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